Episodes
![The Maiden, Mother Crone Triple Goddess and how we increase vitality in our Self](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Thursday Jul 04, 2024
The Maiden, Mother Crone Triple Goddess and how we increase vitality in our Self
Thursday Jul 04, 2024
Thursday Jul 04, 2024
From the perspective of the Celtic Triple Goddess - the Maiden the Mother and the Crone, how do we sense our vitality? Using the lens of our sexuality, our spirituality and our creativity we gain the full spectrum of our own life force. Join me for a discussion and exploration of this framework of Self Development.
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![Controlling or not? A look at relationship dynamics of control](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Sunday Jun 02, 2024
Controlling or not? A look at relationship dynamics of control
Sunday Jun 02, 2024
Sunday Jun 02, 2024
Why do we seek to control others or the world around us? Often it stems from a fear or anxiety that is based in our own Psyche but we don't want to deal with it in ourselves so we use the effort of controlling others to try and feel better. This kind of control or manipulation can look like blaming, being critical or shutting others down. If we understand more about ourselves and where these controlling impulses come from, we can be honest and open in relationships. Join me for a discussion on this topic.
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![People Pleasing - The Pros and Cons](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
People Pleasing - The Pros and Cons
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Are you tired of constantly putting others' needs before your own, only to feel unappreciated and emotionally drained? Discover how the seemingly harmless habit of people-pleasing can lead to a loss of authenticity, emotional exhaustion, and a blurred sense of self, and learn how to break free from this cycle to reclaim your life and relationships!
We will discuss also how People Pleasing could be a positive attribute when coming from a place of integrity and Care for others.
![Aging and Male Sexuality](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Sunday Feb 11, 2024
Aging and Male Sexuality
Sunday Feb 11, 2024
Sunday Feb 11, 2024
Aging has profound effects on many aspects of our health and wellbeing. Particularly around our sexuality and relational wellness, aging can be a doorway to profoundly shift our way of being in our body and with our partner/s. Join me for a discussion around erectile dysfunction in all of its various forms.
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![Guest speaker Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers- Sex positive parenting and becoming Shameless](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Guest speaker Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers- Sex positive parenting and becoming Shameless
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Dr. Tina is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeritus Professor and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine and social justice. Join Ailsa and special guest Dr. Tina in this discussion of Shame and how it affects our ability to parent our kids effectively and in a healthy way.
Dr. Tina can be found on Instagram @DrTinaShameless
Her published works include: 'Sex, God and the Conservative Church' and 'Shameless Parenting' available on Amazon and most booksellers.
You can find out more about Ailsa at www.pleasureforhealth.com
![What is Desire?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Friday Dec 29, 2023
What is Desire?
Friday Dec 29, 2023
Friday Dec 29, 2023
Many great Philosopher’s and Sages have wrestled with the concept of desire. But what is it and what purpose does it serve for us as human beings? In all truth I will probably not answer these questions any more fully than they have already been answered but let’s ponder some thoughts and feelings around desire together and see where it leads us.
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![Does the birth control really give us more freedom?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Monday Nov 13, 2023
Does the birth control really give us more freedom?
Monday Nov 13, 2023
Monday Nov 13, 2023
I have been weighing this thought recently that birth control options still give a huge amount of responsibility to the female in a relationship to 'take care' of things so physical intimacy can be enjoyed without risk of pregnancy. Is this actually allowing more freedom to us or does this mean the effects are often landing on only one person to make really difficult choices? Join me for a discussion of the pros and cons and find out more about my work at www.pleasureforhealth.com
![Why does being with a Narcissist make me feel so bad?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Why does being with a Narcissist make me feel so bad?
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Why do Narcissists make me feel so bad?
As humans, we have an innate desire to connect in community; find our pack, so to speak. A major part of this communal experience is the feeling of co-regulation with others. It connects us on this physiological level through our nervous system.
On our own, we have ways to Self regulate if we are stressed that might include taking a deep breath or exercising. Self-regulation is a process of managing one’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviours in response to external and internal stimuli. Co-regulation, on the other hand, is a process where two people work together to manage their emotions. In order to co-regulate successfully, each individual needs to be aware of their own emotions and be able to communicate them with their partner.
Listen in as I discuss why Narcissistic people have trouble with co-regulation and even self-regulation.
![What’s our body telling us?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
What’s our body telling us?
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
As a Bodyworker I have seen many examples of how disease and dysfunction has a deeper meaning to the person however I never put that together with sexual issues with our genitals in the same way, especially with the male genital. Join me for a discussion of the existential meaning of our genitals.
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![Your relationship as an initiatory experience](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/5900118/ak-podcast_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
Your relationship as an initiatory experience
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
A couple facing crisis in their relationship, such as separation or divorce, is on an initiatory path. Initiation is simply a set of challenges presented to an individual so that he or she may grow. Consequently, the troubles we encounter in our paths in the modern world are, in essence, initiatory to the extent that each one of them is life changing. The issue for Westerners is not so much the absence of initiation as it is the absence of a community to recognize initiatory passages.
Malidoma Patrice Some
Join me to discuss how relationships can offer us both an opportunity and a witness for initiations in our lives.
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