The Pleasure For Health Podcast

Emotional and Psychological safety is often cited as one of the main things we look for in a relationship but what exactly is it? If we wait for others to create a safe place for us are we ever going to find a partner who can maintain this kind of connection? Join me for a discussion about trust, safety and creating intimacy. 

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How can communication make or break your relationship? 

I see many clients coming in telling me their partner isn't that intimate anymore. When I ask them if they have talked about this - it's almost always a - "Well.... no not really". 

Join me today to look at how upping our communication skills can reignite your passion and connection. 

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Join me and My guest, DR. ELLIOT JUSTIN, MD, the CEO and Founder of FirmTech for a talk about the effectiveness of measuring erectile fitness and its indications for heart health. 

Although I don't usually work with this aspect of health in my own intimacy coaching, I am all for giving folks options and this is definitely an option for men to consider when looking at their own sexual wellness. 

ELLIOT JUSTIN, MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men’s erectile fitness. He has a background in Emergency Medicine and healthcare technology consulting. Dr. Justin is also a serial healthcare entrepreneur, having founded and sold Pegasus Emergency Group and Swift MD. He has provided guidance to various services, telemedicine, and tech startups. Dr. Justin pursued Slavic Studies at Harvard University and studied medicine at Boston University. Happily married for 35 years, and father of three children, Elliot and Ann live in Montana with three energetic mares and a flock of chickens. He is a passionate trail rider who sometimes imagines, to his wife’s chagrin, that he’s a centaur.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Join myself and my 25 year old daughter as we discuss the in's and out's of AI and how it is shaping our intimate relationships. Have you tried an AI girlfriend? Is it cheating to have a secret relationship with an AI? So much is changing and it's hard to know what is really important between humans. 

I have my youngest daughter on with me today to talk about how relationships have shifted in the current generation of 20 somethings from the way I remember and approach relationships and dating. Feeling out of touch with modern day relating? Are long term relationships getting harder? Join us for an enlightening discussion of these and other related topics.

Creating Safety in a relationship is so much harder than we think. Why is this? How is our fear sabotaging our best intimate moments and robbing us of creating stronger and more fully authentic partnerships? Join Ailsa for an exploration of fear and how it often drives us away from what we really want. 

What happens when you come for a session with A Somatic Sex Educator? Join Ailsa for an informal chat about what to expect and what people come to see me for. For more info see my website www.pleasureforhealth.com

Join me as I chat with Leslie Costello, a certified Perinatal Psychotherapist and certified Bioenergetic Therapist about early bonding and how that affects our adult relationships. We discussed the enmeshment of the early infant and mother relationship, the shame that can come with this. We even touched on AI and how that might be impeding our relational maturity. 

Leslie is the author of "Helping Mothers, Helping Babies: Somatic Perinatal Psychotherapy" a book designed to help talk therapists bring somatic tools into their sessions with mothers. 

Links:

 https://bookshop.org/p/books/helping-mothers-helping-babies-somatic-perinatal-psychotherapy-leslie-ann-costello/22519210?ean=9781739017057&next=t

 

 or order from your local independent bookstore. It is also available at the big online booksellers.

 

Her blog is free on Substack:  https://pamola10.substack.com

Why do I have to talk about it? communication is key to good relationships but does it really require hours of discussion? Let’s dive into how and why talking is helpful and other options if talking is not your strong point.

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Desire mismatch. Let’s talk about what happens when two people have different levels of erotic desire. This could be due to personality differences or because of childbirth, illness or some other life event. How can the relationship stay alive and connected during this times? Join Ailsa live to find out more.